Tears of a man

Girls cry; we cry a lot, or at least i cry a lot;
I can see other girls cry, i can see children cry, for me, the feeling towards them is simply sympathy;

But i can't see a man with tears, i just can't…

I remember my papa's tears when i was having an operation; i was only 12 then, so i felt the pain, the pain for my wound only, not for my papa's tears. But i remember it, and i feel painful for that ever since i began to understand love.

"Eat, Pray, Love", if i were Liz, i wouldn't have left Steven, i would never. He said, his dream was to have Liz. He cried in the lift. He had the faith to "correct" himself just for Liz. He took his wedding vows seriously, until death. With that, i would spend the rest of my life with him.

I saw Philip cry too, for his son. He had tears in the eyes for his ex-wife. It's just too touching to see those tears... And i can't take it.

Why are men crying so much nowadays? I believe that those are the expressions of true feelings, pain for the child, missing the child, love for the wife. unlike me, whose tears are sometimes just a sign of weakness , or to relieve...